Category: General

  • Life Happens.

    My husband lost his job right before the holidays in December 2007.  His job defined him and thought he’d one day retire from it but God had other plans.  When the dreadful recession of 2008 picked up steam in California, jobs dried up.  It was all we could do to keep making the mortgage payments on our dream home.  Little by little his retirement fund vanished and desperation set in.

    Finally, he landed a short-term contract more than 2,500 miles away.  I stayed home and prepared our home for sale while I worked part-time.   Before he left for South Carolina, we painted the shutters and door and planted beautiful flowers to give our home the curb appeal it needed but, in a market where there were thousands of homes for sale, the prospect of selling seemed bleak.  Room by room, I sorted, packed, and pitched. But I kept praying.  Praying for favor from buyers and wisdom for the sale.

    My husband remained stubborn, and he refused to sell even though it was the only way to keep us from losing everything we worked for.  His South Carolina job was not what was advertised, and he wanted to come home. He couldn’t stand being alone.  I gave him an ultimatum. He could come home but he had to do two things:  put the house on the market and find another job.

    In July, he made that long trip back, and we put the house on the market. It took months to sell the house, but it sold when no houses were selling and most of them were selling for less than the owners’ mortgage.  This was a miracle given the Sacramento area was one of the most hard-hit of recession areas.  When our house finally closed on December 31, 2008, we were overjoyed because it sold at a profit.  Unheard of.  We knew God showed us favor in the house sale and He’d continue to show favor with a job.

    We moved into a small apartment and put most of our belongings into a storage POD.  During the sale period, my husband received an offer to work for a company that worked for the military in Germany. Neither he nor I were keen on living in Germany.  Neither of us was getting any younger.  He turned it down.  Once.  Twice.  Three times.  The employer told him the job would be his if he wanted it.  After the third time, my husband said, “I don’t know how many times God has to hit me over the head. I think we should take this job.”

    I wasn’t thrilled with picking up and moving across the world to a foreign land but if God wanted us there, we’d go.  We had valid passports and no house to sell.  A perfect situation for us and his future employer.  But we could only take so much with us. Our decision to rid ourselves of all the gardening equipment housed in the storage POD meant we had to dispose of it.

    We traveled the short distance to our old neighborhood and gifted our old neighbor, Chuck, with the gardening tools.  When we arrived at his home, not only was his home on the market but so was the home right next door to our old house.  Chuck had the same house like ours.  The one next door to our old house was a little larger.  Both owners were short selling their homes.

    When we unloaded the gardening equipment, he said to us, “You were very lucky. Your buyer overpaid for your home big time.”  And I said, “That wasn’t luck.  That was the power of prayer.”

    My husband and I rejoiced all the way to our tiny apartment and looked forward to the adventure God had in store for us when we moved to Germany.

    When have you seen God at work in your life?

     

  • Be Wise!

    A wise man will hear and increase learning,
    And a man of understanding will attain wise counsel.  Proverbs 1:5 NKJV

    Wisdom. We all want it but seldom do we ask for it or seek God for that special wisdom.  My husband and I pray together daily and we decided many years ago to pray for wisdom.  Why?  Because when you have wisdom, you seldom make terrible mistakes whether it’s in your relationships, your finances or your work.  We have asked for and were granted wisdom in these areas many times over the years.  Do we still make mistakes?  Occasionally.  And usually when we haven’t sought proper counsel…whether from God or from those more knowledgeable in the areas we need counsel.

    Being wise isn’t a facet of the elderly.  Although, the elders in our lives have lived more and seen more so they do have more wisdom than we do.  But no, even the young can have wisdom.  How?  By seeking wise counsel.  Being selective to who we approach for wise counsel is another aspect of wisdom. You wouldn’t go to a banker for legal advice nor would you go to a computer technician for banking advice.  Lining up your counsel for the right advice is crucial.  You might ask a banker who they might recommend for legal counsel or you might consult friends or you might check reviews for attorneys.  Ultimately, though, the decision is yours and yours alone.  We ask those people for advice but we ask the Lord to give us direction and discernment when deciding.  All these things point toward wisdom.

    Another place to look for wisdom is in the book of Proverbs.  It’s amazing how many proverbs are mainstream and most folks don’t know a particular saying comes from the Bible and many of them from Proverbs.  I like to think of Proverbs as a guide to life.  You can’t go wrong with what you learn from Proverbs.

    What is your favorite verse from Proverbs?

  • Prayer Works!

    “Have You not made a hedge around him, around his household, and around all that he has on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land.  Job 1:10 NKJV

    For anyone who has read or knows the book of Job.  It is a difficult book to read.  It took my husband years to read through the entire book! He’d get so far in the book and then he’d stop reading because of Job’s terrible trouble.

    There is an idiom in the English language:  “to have the patience of Job”. It’s a reference to Job’s unending and absolute, unshakeable faith in God despite the trials Job goes through.  His afflictions are many: physically, his family, and his possessions.  More than a single person can even comprehend much less endure. And yet, his love of God never waivers.

    Let’s look at the context of today’s verse.  In verse one through five the Bible gives us Job’s background.   Job was from Uz and he was blameless, feared God and shunned evil.  He has seven sons and three daughters. The Bible tells us of his many possessions and how his sons would feast on an appointed day and invite their sisters.  Job sacrificed for his sons in verse five if they had sinned.

    In verses six through nine, there’s a conversation between God and Satan where God tells Satan to consider His servant Job who is blameless and there is none like him in all the earth.  This leads us to today’s verse.

    In verse ten, today’s verse, Satan tells God that He has protected Job by putting a hedge around him.  Job’s life had no terrible trouble…no health issues, no financial worries, and no family issues.  Satan is goading God to see if Job is who God thinks he is.  (We know Job is who God says he is because God can see the heart of man.) God, through Job, will prove Satan’s error. 

    How can this verse help us live in today’s world?  There is one thing I know for sure and that is: prayer works. I have prayed for protection for my children, grandchildren, extended family, and friends in all areas of their lives.  Do I believe God has put a hedge of protection around my family and friends? Absolutely. I have no doubt whatsoever.

    Case in point.  Years ago, my daughter studied in Luxembourg for a fall semester with sixty other college students.  A small class. Long before she left, I began to pray for her.  The day she left, I laid hands on her and prayed. For her safety while traveling throughout Europe. 

    She called periodically, and she had said she had been traveling to various large cities in Europe.  Even to cities the students were advised not to travel to because of the terrorist activity. She had told me she was planning on a ski trip to the French Alps.  I thought nothing of it at the time since I knew she knew how to ski.

    But I came home from work one evening to a voice message on my phone from someone at the school in Luxemburg.  The message was that my daughter was fine but that I’d probably had already heard there had been a skiing accident in the French Alps. I immediately called my daughter’s host family but with the time difference and language barrier, the host family kept hanging up on me. 

    I walked the floors most of the night waiting until I could call and not have the host family hang up. I must have dozed off because the phone began to ring and it was my daughter.  Her host mother thought one of my daughter’s friends kept calling in the middle of the night.  My daughter realized her friends would never call in the middle of the night and that it was me who had called.

    She told me she had gone to Prague because it was one city she loved in Europe.  At this point, I was reluctant to tell her what had happened.  I gently asked her about her friends that went on a ski trip.  She said other students wanted her to go but she didn’t feel comfortable about the trip.  (I believe the Holy Spirit told her not to go.) When I explained what had happened, she immediately wanted to go to the school because she had no idea what had happened since she had been out of town.

    Coincidence?  I think not.  God’s love for His children who pray and love Him far outweighs the terrible things that can happen.  In today’s world, we need all the help we can get. And while the enemy can cause trouble throughout the world, we have the power to overcome that trouble through prayer to God, our savior.  For strength and power to overcome…just as Job did.

    How has God answered your prayers?

  • A Queen’s Beauty

    To bring Vashti the queen before the king with the crown royal, to shew the people and the princes her beauty: for she was fair to look on. Est 1: 11 NKJV

    The book of Ester is my favorite Old Testament book of the Bible.  I’ve read it many times and am always amazed at Ester’s strength and courage.  How God worked out the circumstances to preserve His people is mind-boggling.  Every little detail.  His love, commitment, and grace to His people always astound me even though I shouldn’t be astounded…I always am.

    Now the context for the verse I highlighted today.  The first ten verses of the chapter starts with King Ahasuerus who reigned over 127 provinces from India to Ethiopia.  In the third year of his reign, he had a feast for all his princes and servants, nobles and princes of the provinces.  In those days, feasts lasted for three months. The king showed off his kingdom and his wealth.  After that, he gave another feast for all the other people great and small in the palace.  His queen, Queen Vashti, gave a feast for the royal women of the palace. On the seventh day, the King ordered his seven chamberlains to bring Queen Vashti to him.

    In ancient times, women were only chattels to their husbands and particularly a queen would bow to her husband’s wishes, the king. It was the way it was.  It’s historical.

    Something important my husband said to me when we got married was: “I’m only middle management.  I have to answer to God if I treat you poorly.”  This has been something that I cling to when things get rough…and it has been rough on occasion but we both knew we had a third person in our marriage to help us through the tough times.  Jesus.

    We could not have survived the many upheavals we’ve had if Jesus were not a part of our marriage.  It’s interesting to me.  My husband once said, “I don’t know how other couples make their marriage work without Jesus in it.”  I believe he’s right.

    What are your thoughts on making Jesus the center of your marriage?

     

     

  • Kings & Kingdoms

    Who is there among you of all his people?  His God be with him, and let him go up to Jerusalem, which is in Judah, and build the house of the LORD, God of Israel, (he is the God,) which is in Jerusalem. Ezra 1:3 NKJV

    Verses 2019 07 08Let’s look at the context of this verse. After Israel had three waves of their people exiled to Babylon, Nebuchadnezzar, the King of Persia held the Jews in captivity for seventy years. In the first two verses of Ezra chapter one, God gave the King of Persia, Cyrus, who followed Nebuchadnezzar, a sense of urgency to put out a proclamation in writing to go to Jerusalem to rebuild the temple.

    Cyrus was an ancient, cruel and pagan king. It’s interesting to me that this mighty king would proclaim the Jewish God, THE God and then give the Jews the green light to return to Jerusalem and build the temple to their God. This king ultimately allowed the exiled people to return to their homeland. 

    Based on Daniel, Ezra and many other major and minor prophets of the Bible, I believe God puts men and kingdoms in place to bring about His plan. Ezra chapter one verses one and two, tells us this. I believe it has been this way since the beginning of time.

     

  • Wisdom

    11 Then God said to Solomon: “Because this was in your heart, and you have not asked riches or wealth or honor or the life of your enemies, nor have you asked long life—but have asked wisdom and knowledge for yourself, that you may judge My people over whom I have made you king— 12 wisdom and knowledge are granted to you; and I will give you riches and wealth and honor, such as none of the kings have had who were before you, nor shall any after you have the like. 2 Chron 1: 11-12 NKJV

    Let’s talk about the context of these two verses.  From verse 1 to verse 6 of 2 Chronicles chapter 1 God blessed Solomon, and he took the people to the high place (where the people could meet with God) and made special sacrifices to Him.   In verse 7, God appears to Solomon and tells him to ask whatever he will.  In verses 8 through 10, Solomon asks for wisdom and knowledge to lead God’s people.

    Solomon asked God not for wealth, health or abundance of any sort but he asked for wisdom.  How wise it was of him to ask God for a trait that he could use to push the nation of Israel to heights no one had ever seen before.  God was exceedingly pleased with the request and not only gave Solomon great wisdom, the likes of which this earth hadn’t seen before him or since but great wealth and favor among the nations.

    Solomon was by no means a perfect man.  There’s only one perfect man, Jesus.  But he wrote practical advice for the ages in the Book of Proverbs.  Even today we quote from that Book.

    My husband and I pray daily, both individually and corporately.  One of our prayers is that God gives us wisdom and favor in all things and with all people like work issues, family, finances, health.  All of it.   And He has been faithful to provide the wisdom and favor we need for the day.

    One day last year my husband called me on the phone from work and said he was having a tough time dealing with a case he had (he’s a network engineer and many times those cases have a complexity that sometimes can be way over not only his head but also his colleagues.)  We had prayed that morning, but this was a special prayer for the specifics of the case.  We took about five minutes to ask the Lord to intervene and give my husband the “eyes” to see the problem to fix it or have His ministering angels intervene and fix it for him.  The wind up was when he got off the phone and went back to work on it, he figured it out, fixed it and the client was happy.  We have scores of stories like that.  Where God answered the prayer for wisdom.  God gives us our needs, not our greeds.  We were specific in the wisdom he needed for the moment and God answered that prayer.

    He truly is a mighty and awesome God.

  • Freedom!

    Freedom.  It seems appropriate for America’s 243rd birthday tomorrow on the 4th of July.  This great country has weathered countless wars.  We seem to remember the major wars:  The Revolutionary War, the War of 1812, the Civil War, the Mexican American War, World War I, World War II, Persian Gulf Wars and the War in Afghanistan and many, many Indian Wars.  In the almost two and a half centuries since our great nations was founded, many have sacrificed their lives to keep us a free nation.

    Our flag, when flying high and proud, makes us think of those who fought and died so we can have the freedoms listed in our bill of rights.

    Sadly, there are those who don’t see our flag as a symbol of patriotism.  They want it banned.  They burn it. But then, they have that right to denigrate our flag because it’s their freedom to do so.  I don’t agree with it but that’s my opinion.

    So today I want to celebrate the stars and stripes but most of all I want to thank ALL the veterans of every war who fought and died for my freedom.  Their sacrifice and the sacrifices of their families touch my heart.  May God bless those who serve along with their families and may He bless those who have lost loved ones and are still grieving their loss.  I grieve with you.

    So if you see a service member in uniform, whether or not you know that service member, walk up to him or her, thank them for their service.  They are not thanked enough and should be.  My heartfelt thanks on this, America’s 243rd birthday.

    Have you ever said thank you to a service member without knowing him or her?

  • Genealogies

    And Abraham begot Isaac. The sons of Isaac were Esau and Israel. 1 Chronicles 1:34 NKJV

    Genealogies.  They’re important.  In ancient and not-so-ancient times, people depended on their parents to relay who their ancestors were and their history as a nation, tribe and ultimately as a family.  They passed that information along to their children and grand-children through word of mouth and the written word of God.  Namely, the Bible.

    The Bible gives us scores of genealogies and often we skim over them thinking them boring but they are significant because we can learn from them. The genealogies within the Bible substantiate the Bible’s historical accuracy confirming these people not only actually lived but where they lived and information about their lives.

    The Bible became the perfect place in which to document marriages, births and deaths of who they were and how they were related to one another.

    The advent of ancestry.com and 23andme.com sites have made the practice of finding our ancestors easier than ever.

    My husband and I decided to do the ancestry.com DNA testing before we knew about 23andme.com.  While I always thought I was one-hundred percent Italian because all my grandparents were born in Italy, I found out I’m only eighty-nine percent Italian. The other percentages blew my mind!  The reports were interesting and phenomenal but when we decided to do the 23andme.com DNA testing because it also had medical information based on DNA and how likely one would be to have adult-onset diabetes or some other disease that might be helpful for a child or grand-child to know about.

    The results were almost identical in both DNA tests.  But what I liked most with 23andme.com was the ability to connect with potential relatives.  First, second, third, fourth, and fifth cousins.  As of this post I have over a thousand connections, some of which are messaging me.

    It’s truly amazing what we have available to us in this day and age.  Do the DNA test and find out where you are from.  You won’t be sorry.

  • Bamberg

    We hadn’t intended to travel to Bamberg, Germany but when we went to Wurzburg, we met two very nice ladies who said Wurzburg had been demolished in the war and most of the beautiful architecture was not ancient but rebuilt to look the same as it had… meaning it wasn’t authentic.  We were disappointed but that’s another adventure story.  They said to visit Bamberg because it had the historical buildings we adored.  We scheduled a trip at a later date to see Bamberg.  And we were so glad we did! There just wasn’t enough time to see everything.

    There’s a base in Bamberg so we checked it out since our military credentials would allow us to go on base and shop at the base exchange.  We were less than impressed after having spent time on the four bases in Stuttgart which were much more impressive.

    A cold and cloudy day met us as we made our way to this lovely city. Although it is not on Germany’s famous Romantic Road, personally, I think it should be.  It’s picturesque and quaint. Since we got a late start, and it was a little further afield we opted to stay the night and return to our home in Plieningen in the morning.

    Unfortunately, we did not plan on staying the night so we had no luggage, toiletries or medication. But we decided to tough it out for one night. We located an IBIS hotel which we thought would be nice because my husband’s sister had stayed in one and she doesn’t stay in any junkie places.  While it was “nice” for European standards, it wasn’t what I would call a great hotel. If a micro-hotel is like this, then I’d be claustrophobic. But for one night…what the heck! The bathroom was so small you could barely get to the toilet. And the shower was a tiny triangular shaped thing. The only saving grace was it had a very cool sink! But I worried about getting up in the night and bumping my head against the wall when I got out of bed.  There was less than ten inches between the bed and the wall.

    After checking into the hotel, we tooled around town on foot. It’s an absolutely lovely city and one I’d like to revisit, but not stay at the IBIS.

    We ate at a local restaurant called the Schlenkerla which had a pub-like atmosphere and we sat at a long trestle table with another couple at the other end. It appeared you sat wherever there were seats, and it didn’t matter if you didn’t know the person or not! We had their local specialty:  stuffed onions with potatoes. We weren’t disappointed with the fare offered. The building drew us in!

    The buildings in the old city were beautiful, especially the old courthouse which was built right in the middle of the river and accessible by two bridges. An amazing feat for the year 1386! Its medieval buildings were authentic and water surrounds the old city with its water canals. It reminds me of Venice. The old town is actually a UNESCO World Heritage Site.

    I wished we’d had more time to visit the seven churches on the seven hills surrounding Bamberg, but we didn’t. If you ever get to Bamberg, make plans to stay for at least three or four days to see everything…but don’t stay at an IBIS!

    Another adventure awaits!  Next time…who knows?

     

  • Humility

    Again, he sent a third captain of fifty with his fifty men. And the third captain of fifty went up, and came and fell on his knees before Elijah, and pleaded with him, and said to him: “Man of God, please let my life and the life of these fifty servants of yours be precious in your sight. 2Kings 1:13 NKJV

    Let’s look at the context of this verse:  At the time of the book of 2 Kings, Israel had been divided into two kingdoms: The Northern Kingdom or Israel (made up of ten of the original 12 tribes of Israel) and the Southern kingdom or Judah (made up of the remaining two tribes).  The King of the North, Ahaziah, was an evil king in the sight of the Lord because he worshipped pagan gods. Twice the King of Israel sent a captain and fifty men to the mountaintop to summon Elijah to bring him to the King.  Both contingents of men died because Elijah called down fire from heaven.  And that brings us to this verse.

     A humble person recognizes his own self-worth in the eyes of God, not in the eyes of man.

    But I have to wonder did the captain humbled himself because the other contingents of men had been burned up by the fire of God or had it been because he had been truly humbled on God’s mountain.

    Whether you are a leader or you are not, it’s a great thing to be humble.  Here are five traits of a humble person: 

    • Recognize what you know and what you don’t know.
    • Acknowledge your accomplishments, but know there will be others who are more accomplished than you.
    • Never forget where you came from.
    • Treat everyone with respect.
    • Diminish the “I” and elevate the “we”.

    Aspiring to have these traits is a worthy goal in life.
    What worthy goal have you set for yourself?